How to succeed in the art of communication

Contents:

• Personality Types
• How to communicate with certain people?

What a strange term - the art of communication? Many people heard him wonder: Is this you need to learn? It seems there is nothing difficult to talk, to tell each other about what is happening, expressing feelings and emotions. Another question is how perceived hear different people.

How interpersonal problems would not have arisen if people were able to communicate properly.

People are divided into several types, and each characterized by its own style of communication. Knowing how to build a conversation with a counterpart having a particular type of temperament, misunderstanding and related misunderstandings can be avoided.
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Personality Types

Consideration should be given basic personality traits in more detail and give them a description.

1. Introverts: they find it difficult to communicate. Their experiences, they are deep in yourself, avoid unnecessary contact.
2. Extroverts: they need to communicate maximized. They constantly put notify others about their experiences arising, convey their views on the circumstances in any situations are new acquaintances.

Of course, such psycho pure rare. Rather, in certain characters dominate certain features.

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How to communicate with certain people?

The first thing to figure out your character type.

If it is closer to the quality specifications of the extroverts, in order to make it easier to build a dialogue with others, should try not to talk about yourself all the time. More listen to the opinions of others, not to express openly disagreement. Once the communication will develop in this way, people will start to drag. Leadership positions in the team will be easy to win at the expense of the nature of the pledged openness. Emerging resentment at the apparent disregard disappear.

To learn how to properly communicate the introvert is more important than the extrovert. That is difficult for people to make new friends and acquaintances. This affects the professional sphere. Therefore, despite the difficulties, it is necessary to overcome itself and to move closer. The result will be surrounded by people who appreciate the tacit approval and participation.

Entering into a dialogue, it is necessary to try to analyze to what psycho is the person with whom you communicate. For introverts? It should try to introduce it in the course of the case, listen carefully to the rare replica, to express how is the situation from different perspectives. His silence in the future can lead to serious misunderstandings. It will help to understand its relation to the subject facial expression, facial expressions, tone - all these need to be considered.

Extroverts can not allow itself to speak. With it always have to keep an eye on. If he tries to deviate from the topic, it is necessary to translate the firm interviewed for the channel. Giving it is necessary to speak, but firmly with the report, and their point of view. You can even do it with a certain degree of rigidity. Such people are usually thick-skinned, and if this feature is present in the character and then othodchivy.

Talking with someone, you want to show interest in socializing. Very good intonation to emphasize important points.

Argue not. If the arguments are inconclusive, it is better to finish the conversation on a friendly note and continue at a more appropriate time. You can not raise the tone switch to scream.

Only friendly, quiet dialogue promotes mutual understanding.