Contents:
- Relationships in the family for the 11th wedding anniversary
- Celebrating 11th wedding anniversary
- Rituals and traditions of the steel Anniversary
The wedding is in the memory of every person to a very long time. Someone manages to hold together more than a dozen years, someone breaks up much earlier. Sometimes this separation does not depend on the desires of a spouse. According to tradition, it is celebrated each anniversary and the celebration takes place under a special symbol. Each has his own age. And those years that the human age still do not mean anything, in family life are capable of much. So, eleven child is very young to take some action, to take its own decision.
While 11 years of marriage - what can already be proud of. It is the anniversary of steel.
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Relationships in the family for the 11th wedding anniversary
It is a steel wedding relations between spouses should resemble in quality and durable at the same time a beautiful metal. Such a substantial number of years a couple has usually goes through a lot. And it's not just candy buketny period. Most likely, there was a place in everyday disagreements and quarrels about the mismatch of flavors, and, of course, the rapid discuss how to name their first child.
Strength test, the resurrection of the senses and observing how the partner responds to your fatigue, your behavior and habits - all this can interrupt the fledgling, fake feelings. No wonder it became a malleable material in the hands of a true professional. The couple, who managed to carry it all through a period of 11 years, together capable of much. Family psychologists believe that this date is symbolic, because even in those we see two units, which are finally united.
Those who know what qualities have steel, probably remember that it is able to reflect all that is directed at her. The same effect is observed in the relations between husband and wife. It is a saying that says that a husband and wife - one of Satan confirmed just yet for this anniversary. Couples with half a word, and sometimes missing, and look, can understand each other. Their interests, hobbies, interests and even begin to take shape as required by family life. Together, they are more interesting than with a huge number of guests.
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Celebrating 11th wedding anniversary
However, do not change established traditions, and to avoid meeting with his loyal friends and relatives. Each anniversary is able to take you to where you are young, extremely happy and just starting their married life in a new status. As before, collect the company of loved ones, those who are dear to you and who you can really count on. Another family advice of psychologists is that the festival is desirable the presence of couples, which together have a year longer. Do not forget about the children who represent the continuation of the species, and are followers of your family traditions.
Unlike the original wedding, anniversaries Tamada is not present. And it is right. It is better to entrust this matter to one of your close friends or relatives. It will be interesting to say congratulations, toasts, monitor the progress of activities and hands you put the gifts in a specially designated place. As for the venue of the celebration, it should be emphasized here that you - a real family, which was not only able to plant a tree, raise a child, but also to build a house. The living room is convenient to all who honor you with their parish. But do not forget that for such an important event in your environment must necessarily change something. The best option is to install a fireplace - a symbol of home, warmth and comfort.
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Rituals and traditions of the steel Anniversary
For many millennia, during which there is the institution of family and marriage, there was also preserved a considerable number of rituals associated with wedding anniversary.
The rite of initiation into the couple. First step
The most spectacular of these Russian people is a rite of passage in the couple. It was carried out on the day of the eleventh birthday of the family. It was held in several stages. The first relates to the washing. At dawn, the wife had to go out to the pond, to undress and enter together, holding hands in the water. There, they had to spend at least 10 minutes. Thereafter, at the exit of the water, they are put on white garments.
If the wedding was held in the cold season, the eve of the anniversary of the washing water is poured into the boiler and set on fire. By morning the water has been heated to the required temperature and boilers can be removed from the heat. Husband and wife together and were in the water for at least 10 minutes. This completes the first phase, which symbolized the fact that the couple have become clean and worthy for the main stage of the ritual.
The rite of initiation into the couple. Second phase
To do this, first the children performed "Ode to the marriage," the words of which have not survived to the present time, but allowed arbitrary interpretation of the main idea of the work: the couple became a worthy example for all those who have not yet married or lived fewer years of marriage. At that time, the husband and wife are on the threshold of his house. It is also symbolic, because soon they will move into a new stage of relations on the threshold of which they find themselves, having lived together for eleven years. To perform the rite was chosen the most senior resident of the settlement, or the priest.
The couple was offered a choice of one of three things: a knife, a rope or a batter. Each of them has a special character. If they choose the dough, it means that their relationship is still vague and not strong enough. This couple was sent to bake bread to symbolize the binding strengthening their relationship. The rope - the way that you have not gone to this union of two loving and trusting each other people. Knife indicates that you absolutely trust each other and are willing to give their lives for each other.
The rope had to be folded in half and twist, and then leave under the threshold of the house. Pie treated all present. Knife priest conducted between spouses who, on his knees, were the most tightly pressed against each other shoulders. If, during the ceremony nobody strayed from the partner, the rite is passed. The heads of one of the spouses were covered with white veil. From that moment all thoughts and actions are considered to be reunited couple.
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