Contents:
- Customs at the feast
- Developments of our time
- What do you give a man my dear?
To mark the 20th anniversary of the wedding, as well as other anniversaries, first to the Germanic peoples in the Middle Ages. Directly on the wedding day at the feast was attended only by relatives of the newlyweds, after a few weeks the happy event was celebrated with friends. A year later the young family invited to share in the fun of their mutual friends. After two to a table called everyone, even the most distant relatives and acquaintances hardly acquired. So I went the custom to celebrate wedding anniversary.
In the East, too, it was made to celebrate those years together, but they are guided by other considerations and the matter came to the view point of numerology. Only two of the couple celebrated their wedding anniversary every 11 years during the same multiple of 4, it was decided to convene a large company.
In Russia, such a practice has arisen relatively recently, only in the 19th century and took over much of the eastern.
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Customs at the feast
20th wedding anniversary is called a porcelain reason. How beautiful vintage china skilled craftsmen, so beautiful union of two hearts.
How fragile this stuff, just vague marital happiness, and only caring treatment can preserve it for years to come in safety.
Usually twenty years of marriage decided to celebrate with the family. Invite only the closest relatives and friends. The main dish should be something uncomplicated, symbolizing the family comfort. It can be baked poultry or pork. Well, if it's signature dish of the family, bring to the table for years. However, this should not be something exotic or newfangled. Due to the fact that the Eastern tradition has roots well to the table at least one national dish of the East. However, it should not dominate, but only set off the usual traditional food, as the holiday is intended to demonstrate the stability and continuity of generations.
But the main drinking traditions of the 20th anniversary is a tea party. Therefore, a full mistress of the table that day becomes pastries. All kinds of biscuits, cakes, pretzels, cakes, pancakes filled and unfilled. It is important that they are not baked heroes of the occasion, and their children, as a sign of commitment to tradition.
The table serves only new porcelain. Well, if you will take pride of place utensils donated by parents or children. This custom is linked to the fact that for 20 years of a happy life together had to be interrupted all the porcelain for crockery beats for happiness. Therefore decided to update the dishes as a sign that the past (though happy) behind and in front of a lot of new and bright.
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Developments of our time
Despite the fact that the 20th wedding anniversary is usually accepted to celebrate in private, in recent years, a new trend - to celebrate with the whole breadth of the Russian soul. And no wonder, because now not every family is able to hold out for so long. Therefore, such a happy accomplishment is simply impossible to hide from people. In addition, over the years the family has had time to acquire as close relatives who have grown up and probably already married children and many friends. Sin is not to invite them to the feast.
Now often wedding anniversaries, including porcelain, noted in a cafe or a restaurant among many people. The symbolic meaning of this: to set an example and encourage others to preserve the family as long, building his fortune laboriously, working on it every day.
Color porcelain wedding - white. Well, if the guests in their finery use at least some part of the color. It is the color of purity, loyalty and sincerity. On this day, he is not only a symbol but also a kind of talisman, bringing good to the family. You can pre-warn guests about the desired colors and attire, and you can do easier. Because someone can not be a white festive attire, get yourself some accessory, such as a white ribbon, and give it to all the guests at the entrance.
Himself should also be dressed in full, or at least in part, in white. The hall is decorated with festive balloons and garlands with a predominance of white. You can stock up on crackers and give their guests that "blew up" during their toasts. This will add a festive mood to all the guests.
Regardless of where and how you choose to celebrate the 20th anniversary of living together, a genuine elation should fill your home. To do this, you may want to consider pre-event program with dances and competitions. If you are invited to the wedding china, necessarily zagotovte some interesting and festive toast. On this day, toasts should be pronounced more often than any other.
Like any wedding, porcelain also has acquired its own customs and rituals. Owners of the house have to put in a porcelain vessel of a lot of coins. When guests arrive, they each take on the coin itself. Thus the abundance and generosity of the family will return a hundredfold.
Spouses must find the house, the oldest porcelain cups and in the presence of all the guests are drinking, to break ground. Did any of the guests just have to give two new dishes to the old took all the bad luck and the house was always new.
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What do you give a man my dear?
Give jubilee made porcelain (dishes, vases, souvenirs, dolls), kitchen utensils or anything east. For example, it is possible to present the so-called "bamboo happiness". In fact, this plant is not bamboo, and Dracaena braunii. In Feng Shui, this plant brings happiness wherever growing.
These days, everyone wants to give useful and necessary gift. To keep the tradition, it is possible to make a small souvenir, such as a Chinese cat happiness. You can also donate money tree as a plant, and a souvenir. If it is in a clay pot, your gift you kill several birds with one stone. The fact that in ancient times it was customary to give on the 20th anniversary of the wedding of clay crafts, full of himself. Today, this tradition has survived in part. Therefore, it is quite possible to replace the porcelain gifts on clay.
In its anniversary the couple should also make each other gifts. If significant dates in the family decided to make expensive gifts, we can make them a little souvenir, such as a medal her husband "20 years of happiness" in a porcelain mug. Gene can be presented in a porcelain jewelry box. Thus, they will be respected and popular, and family traditions. If, conversely, the couple decided to exchange souvenirs, porcelain cups and saucers with pictures of each other or the whole family will fall just in time. The flowers on this day give only white.
Parents can give children tea set with a box of sweets for tea to sweeten their lives, or porcelain dish with the image of the city, who played in the life of the spouses significant role. For example, the city where they were born or where they met. Perhaps there is a city with which they are associated both an unforgettable experience.
Children, along with a porcelain dish, which is prepared baking them, parents can give the album with the most favorite photographs, or make a collage.
It is important to not only comply with all customs, promising peace and longevity of the family, but also to be on this day of joy and fun, thanks to the life of the mind that it was held next to this man, and then happiness will always be with you.
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