Contents:
- Lace or Landysheva wedding
- Whether to believe superstitions?
- The tradition of celebrating
- Gifts woman and man
13 years of marriage - a significant date. Hand in hand they went, the wife, spent them in sorrow and in joy, learn to understand and appreciate each other like no other. Symbols 13 years of marriage - lace and lily of the valley, so this anniversary is called a lace or Landysheva.
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Lace or Landysheva wedding
Create a relationship for 13 years of living together can be compared to heavy, requiring a great deal of patience work lace, which for several months and even years to weave their lace products. Their work turns out delicate, thin, fragile. So relations between spouses over 13 years acquire ease and finesse. Now husband and wife should be especially careful to treat each other: how, breaking a string, can spoil the whole lace pattern, and one careless act easily disrupt family harmony.
The second symbol of the 13th anniversary of the family life is the lily of the valley. It is incredibly charming and delicate flower with a subtle fragrance embodies all the sensual relationship that the couple carried through many years of living together to this day. In addition, the lily - a symbol of fidelity and love. All these feelings remained a couple, despite the problems and failures in life, and will be present in the relationship further.
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Whether to believe superstitions?
Lace or Landysheva wedding - the anniversary of the most mysterious. In the view of the number of 13 people it is usually shrouded in mystery and secrecy. However, do not assume that everything that is connected with this number, scares, and link 13 anniversary of the time the family discord. For thirteen years of marriage, the couple had checked sense of strength, and strength, and the power of love for each other only increases.
According to the traditions of this day, the wife of the head to tie a lace handkerchief or a tape and the neck itself, her husband and children covered lace collar, as the most vulnerable places of the human body were considered the head and neck. Thus the family to protect themselves from the impact of the demons that could be confused all plans for that day. Specific selection of patterns on clothing strengthens the protection of, for example, drawing with birds bring happiness into the house, the flowers retain the comfort of home, the warmth of the sun filled relationship. The women used as a talisman, and even a wreath of nettles, and men were made aspen twigs that get out of the house all the strife and trouble.
Follow or not ancient custom, the couple decide.
However, the number 13 has magical significance, so to celebrate their wedding anniversary should be subject to some traditions.
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The tradition of celebrating
In accordance with the old tradition of this day, from the clothes of husband and wife need to take the threads that tie should be on their toes. So the couple "linked" to live together in love and harmony for many years. The custom of celebrating 13 years of marriage requires the day to pay attention to homes. The warmest place in the house, such as near the battery to put lace handkerchief, and put on him a bowl of milk. It is believed that it helps to appease houses that protect the family from harm.
13th anniversary of marriage celebrated in the quiet family circle. From the guests - only close relatives and friends, be sure to children. This is the most relaxed and "home" anniversary, so to attract attention and call a lot of guests it is not necessary. On the festive table you need to lay the lace tablecloth and napkins. The more openwork and lace, the better will be transferred to the atmosphere of the day. Lay the table can be different wicker vases, baskets, dishes with filigree ornament. Even food can be issued symbolic: on salads with mayonnaise draw lacy pattern, desserts decorate air whipped cream, bake delicate pancakes. A vase with a bouquet of white flowers is required. Let your table in this day will be gentle and easy, as the mood of the audience.
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Gifts woman and man
Given the symbolism of the 13 anniversary of the wedding, you can give different lace products, as well as flowers. If the anniversary is celebrated in spring, giving bouquet of lilies of the valley, and if they can not get it to this day you can use any white flowers: chrysanthemums, roses, lilies, carnations. The woman in this day can present a set of lacy underwear, stockings or tights. If you think this is too intimate a gift, give a lace scarf. He will make a fashionable and unique every woman. Perfume with the scent of lily of the valley are perfect as a gift. They will add tenderness, romanticism and fragility culprit celebration.
You can make a gift that will be useful and necessary for the whole family. Lace tablecloths, napkins, tulle handmade boxes with lace trim, statues in the form of lilies of the valley, such as a crystal, a picture of these colors - all this can give spouses of 13 anniversary of their wedding. If funds permit, you can buy wicker furniture, it fits well in almost any interior style. When thinking up a gift, you can use the number 13 and give, for example, the service for 13 persons. This service, of course, will need to prepare themselves.
If the anniversary of you, you probably are thinking, what to give her husband. At first glance it seems that choose a gift with a "lacy" or "Landysheva" theme for a man difficult. However, even here there are plenty of gift options for this day. Tat and knit - similar sessions for handy people. Therefore, if you know, you can tie her man sweater, mittens or a scarf. If the product you will embroider a flower lily of the valley, such a gift would be doubly symbolic.
You can give a pillow, blanket or towel, again with an embroidered lily of the valley. A great gift for your husband will be your joint picture encased in a frame openwork, which also complement your interior. But remember, no matter what gift you neither presented that day, as long as it was made with love, tenderness and care!
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