My friend - gay. Reveals secrets

Contents:

• Why there is friendship?
• Lack of jealousy
• Cover
• Fad
• Because together well

Friendship between a man and a woman .... Is it possible? The issue of interest to many, but it is not easy to answer. Yes, reflections on this subject quite a lot, only unambiguous verdict is still no one ordered. One thing is clear - always, well, or almost always, such a friendship ends bed. Of course, this does not mean that the friendly relations come to an end, just these relationships acquire a completely different character. Men say that the friendship with the opposite sex is possible only in two cases: if they are former lovers, keep a good attitude, and if a man is gay.

With the first option is more or less clear - had a sexual relationship, but the feeling faded, people continue to communicate by habit: they share something in common from a past life - hobbies, work, even children. And what about the second case? My friend is gay: how to explain this strange but not uncommon modernity?

Girls friends with gay men, and this fact does not make them any inconvenience. Quite the contrary - they believe these relationships are stronger than friendship between women. Why is that, whether or not such a sincere friendship from girls or are they "give birth" because it is so fashionable?

Why there is friendship?

There are many examples of friendship girls males sexual orientation. Some people think that such relationships are fraught with a little secret - a girl who is friends with a gay person, as a rule, has an inferiority complex: it is either absent own personal life, or it is extremely dissatisfied with it.

As you know, a woman's happiness is family. A friendship with a gay gives women a sense of intimacy and usefulness. It seems that you're always close to the man, but at the same time, he never encroach on your freedom.

Many regard the friendship with a gay person as a drug that is addictive. After all, who has tried at least once to talk to them, looking to continue the relationship. Gay flatters vanity girls, because for him it is just a best friend and not a competitor. Note that re-imagine the husband of another gay man is almost impossible - they wind and treacherous as women.

Lack of jealousy

Gay Man will always be honest with the woman, because she never would be his sexual object or opponent. He will not gossip, as some "intimate girlfriends," will not try to discourage girlfriend Man. Emu is simply not necessary. A friend of the gay adequately assess the appearance of the girl with her to discuss this or that brand of underwear, sincere advise to buy a dress for a party, and at the same time never ask this dress reproach, spoiling it or forgetting to return.

And even if he is handsome as Apollo, the girl having a mediocre appearance or curvaceous, never will be completed next to it, as they share absolutely nothing - they are just good friends. By the way, the gay woman can adequately explain the principles of conduct of men in this or that situation, imagine yourself in her place and give good advice, and this will agree, it is very important to preserve the relationship.

Well, among other things, a gay friend can be sure that he is not smitten with her insane passion, while spoiling their friendship. However, for the last fact - everything is the envy of most girls. There are cases where women are falling in love with his "girlfriend", and there is already crumbling relationship, no matter how hard you try.

Cover

Friendship with gay lets cool the ardor of the jealous fiancé, strictly looking at his girlfriend's communication with the opposite sex - so say some women. In fact, things are not so simple. If a man is jealous, it does not stop, and all your statements, "he's gay, I do not wonder how a woman" came to nothing lead. Dissatisfaction with the side of your second half will still be, because for the ordinary man psychology of homosexuals is not clear, they refer to such people with caution, even with contempt. And the controversy in your life do not stop, they just go into a different direction. Your man does not understand "how to deal with this ... ? "

Just imagine for a moment a situation: as long as you're shopping with a friend gay and choose your own new set of underwear, your man repairing a car with two lovely lesbians. ... How does it feel? Probably not very good. You rush headlong into the garage in order to clarify the situation. Therefore we should not be judged severely for failing to understand her man. And try to make friends with a gay man for the reason described above, it is not worth it.

Fad

This fact has led many women to reconsider their priorities in friendship. "If it is fashionable, then I want it! What I'm worse than others? "That begins to look for a girl friend of homosexuals in society, forgetting that true friendship will never be subservient to any trends. Gay - he's also a human being, he is not a lap dog, which is displayed on a walk, decorated with a pair of gems to show off to others.

In fact, these women are not interested in the life of a new friend, his habits and preferences, they are interested only by his sexual orientation. And so this relationship is doomed to failure. Of course it is effectively telling friends about gay friend, who understands everything, does not dismiss the gossip, support under any circumstances. But if you look at the situation on the other hand, it becomes a shame for a guy who became a complement to the fashionable image. Sadly, in general ...

Because together well

This is the latest and most reasonable cause of friendship with a gay. Sympathy, emerged from the first meeting and is pushing for the next dialogue - is the main component of the strong friendship between the people. If she is sincere in her feelings, she would never look for excuses to his friendship and to the question - "Why are you friends with gay? "Give a single correct answer -" because he was a good man, I'm with him easy and fun! "

It is this friendship is going to be a long and happy - when the first place are just human quality, desire to do for others something good cheer when he is sad. And to make it completely disinterested and sincere. As in the old Soviet cartoon about friends - "It's me flowers, and for what? "" And just like that! "

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