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A lot of people use the services of Internet and mobile communications. Because of this they are able to learn, communicate, and even build a relationship online. However, this familiarity does not guarantee that you will be interested and will be invited on a date. Because many of the girls concerned about how a guy interested in correspondence and please him. It is not difficult, you just have to follow certain rules.
The initiative is not punishable! Do not be afraid to take the initiative, and the first to write an appeal to young man. A normal guy will appreciate it properly, and if you do not appreciate, then this is not your "half". On the pages of social networks has information about the person and his enthusiasm, as well as photographs. Read carefully the questionnaire, perhaps you have a common hobby. It's a good excuse to start chatting. Ask any interesting question, comment photos. Come up with something original, joke, Intrigue and beware of trite phrases. From the first phrase it determines whether to start up correspondence.
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So, let's correspondence ensued.
Now it is important to be friendly, polite, open, sincere, sociable.
Do not write monosyllabic phrases, do not hesitate to answer his questions, tell about themselves, their hobbies, but do not be too outspoken, keep his interest in himself. Use emoticons, but in moderation. Too many emoticons irritate the interlocutor.
The guy certainly ask you for a photo. Send him my best, interesting pictures. They may talk about your hobbies and interests. In no case can not be sent lewd photos.
Positive, humility and genuine interest
Decide on the objectives met. If the goal - a serious relationship, it is not necessary at the start of communication to discuss intimate questions, or you may seem frivolous and alienate these decent guy. Also, do not be interested in his material level and discuss the topic of money, you could easily be suspected of self-interest.
Correspondence should be positive, and avoid whining and complaints to life. It's not like anyone. Boys need to see you in good company, not the source of problems. By the way, do not forget about literacy! Literacy, cultural speech, you show respect for the recipient and his education. Agree, it's nice to read competent and interesting letters, no foul language?
Sincere interest in the guy his life, hobbies, views on the various problems of life. He can talk for a long time that he is interested. But beware not to be intrusive and arrange interviews. If you feel that the other person refuses to answer, then change the subject. Perhaps he will answer all your questions a little later, when I feel that you can trust.
Bursaries and tact
Maybe your new friend - a specialist in some question. Ask him to help teach anything. It brought together by you. If all of a sudden he refuses, do not get discouraged and continue to admire, his experience and professionalism. Just do not throw it with compliments. Blatant flattery is unlikely to attract a smart guy. Learn to accept compliments with dignity, do not underestimate them, but also do not need to show off. Do not try to seem perfect, be yourself. This is a sure way to sincere relations and mutual understanding.
Constantly looking for new topics to discuss and prepare for it. At your disposal is the Internet, books and encyclopedias. Just do not show off his extraordinary mind, teach the guy and make fun of him. This, of course, it will scare. Be interesting, erudite and sensitive.
Gently express their opinions, strongly argue and prove his innocence is not necessary. Look at the way he behaves when disagreed with him, his reaction, words and intonation.
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No offense to the guy if he did not always immediately respond to your letters. You do not need it any reproach and accuse, and to cast messages or emoticons. He will not be anything! Perhaps he is busy studying or working. And is that not in the mood or have any personal problems. In any case, your activity will be regarded by them as an obsession.
In no case do not try to compare Man with your friends or with someone else! This will deal a blow to his self-esteem and self-esteem. You would also not like it if he began to compare you with a girl friend, but still not in your favor!
Knowing how to interest a guy correspondence and to please him, you get a chance to find a suitable man and build a long-term relationship. But do not rush to encounter in real life. At first all they knew each other better, get closer. Most people are unfamiliar with the premature meeting feel uncomfortable and embarrassed. Haste should not ruin your first date! If you realize that a sufficiently converged and can not wait to meet, then assign a date and easily translate their relationship from the virtual into reality.
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