Fall in love with a Man is easier than it seems

Contents:

• A bit of psychology
• How to fall in love with the guy: practical tips
• How to behave with a guy, that he fell in love with you?
• When beginning a relationship is necessary
• How to fall in love with a Man, corresponding with him?

What girl does not dream about that guy liked the first declared his love?

But it also happens when a guy does not notice the tender feelings to him by the girl, and does not reciprocate. But it turns out, sit back and sigh about the sad fate, not worth it. You just need to take the initiative in their hands. First of all, to understand how to fall in love with Man, you need to understand a little male psychology.

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A bit of psychology

Firstly, if you ask this question, znchit on a subconscious level you have already think that fall in love with a Man's real. And it's absolutely true! After all, in any case (and in love as well) attitude is very important. The main thing here - a belief in themselves and their own strength, plus the knowledge of some tricks. As a result, you will achieve your goal.

The most important - is to understand what wants the young man that you like. Answers to the question, what is his ideal girlfriend, what features it should have, you've already done half the work.

Psychologists have long known the answers to these questions. Numerous studies and surveys give into the hands of women a powerful tool to attract the attention of men of heart.

So, what kind of girl dreams of most men?

First, the woman must be feminine. If you possess the nature of femininity, then you and the cards. Well, if you lack this quality, we will have to work on themselves and to form its own. Femininity in men is associated with weakness, vulnerability, fragility. Next to a girl every man automatically becomes strong, courageous defender. Needless to say, as far as flatters man's vanity and raises his self-esteem?

The second quality that attracts men in girls - sexy. Just do not confuse it with vulgarity: they are completely different things, among which many women equate. This is a huge and fatal error. Sexuality should be in everything: clothing, gait, manner of speaking and behaving. Therefore, if your style is far from sexy clothes, if you prefer baggy pants and shirts two sizes larger, to attract the attention of a young person better to change the image. This also applies to the rest: do not let rudeness in manners, abusive speech, etc.

The third quality, who appreciate a man in a weak field, - a wit. Although more men said that for them it is important that the girl was intelligent, in this case we are not talking about the mind, namely ingenuity - a few different things. Wit you can express in communion with the young man, when you see it at a glance, negotiate for a phrase, laugh at his jokes. All this is to say the guy that you really suit each other because there is a mutual understanding between you. But do not go too far: negotiating a guy phrases, try to make it not look as if you have it constantly interrupt and if the joke is actually you do not like (for example, they are flat or with a touch of vulgarity), it is not necessary pretend you this funny and very pleasant - not to indulge guy.

And chetvetoe - ease. Men like cheerful girls are easy, which is always in a good mood. Beautiful, but a sullen girl who smiles and always dissatisfied with something, it is unlikely to be interested in the guy. So try to be always in a good mood: smile often, be open to dialogue.

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How to fall in love with the guy: practical tips

First, let's understand what it means to fall in love with a man? It means to make him think about myself, to dream, to desire. In fact, I fall in love with Man can at least 1 day in advance. To do this, just try. Let's try to draw up a specific action plan for the conquest of Man. All of them are aimed at one thing: to create the best first impression, and thus to the young man will long be remembered.

• Include all her femininity and sexuality, which only methods. Just do not forget, no vulgarity, rudeness, and so on. D. Wear a beautiful dress, high heels, make-up, hairstyle, choose the appropriate spirits. In this guide, personal style and taste, time and place of the meeting, but remember that all of your image should not be provocative.
• Give the guy understand that he likes you. But it must be done, though confident, but not intrusive and not too aggressively. It would be appropriate to first to start a conversation, but remain a mystery to him, he wants to solve. Do not open it on the first night. Of course, there can be no question about any intimacy: it would ruin everything. you do not want to earn a reputation in the eyes of Man readily available women? Then keep it at a distance.
• But it is a phone number you can give! On the one hand, once you give the guy understand that he is interested in you. On the other, will be convinced that he became interested in you and is waiting for a new meeting. You can advance to write a phone number on a napkin, and when a guy asks you to dictate the number, give him a note. It will surprise him.

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How to behave with a guy, that he fell in love with you?

It is known that male and female psychology is different. If you know the basics of male psychology and tactics of correct behavior with a man, you can quickly and permanently be his one and only.

• Do not rush things.

This is the first and most important rule. Soon you will have in their hands the tools that will help you fall in love with guy, so do everything slowly, gradually and quietly. Take some time for yourself and do not rush things. Otherwise you may get the opposite result.

• Be an attentive listener.

Women often make the mistake of nonstop talking and forgetting that man, too, want to express. In conversations with a young man tries to make it more than a monologue on his part: listen to him carefully, shows that you are interested in and understand what he was saying (assents, nod your head). But remember: if you agree in everything with a man, he does get bored. If you disagree with something, express your opinion, justify it. Thus heighten interest in and respect for the young man.

• Be happy and cheerful.

Everyone, regardless of sex, love people light and cheerful. Be like this: smile, laugh, joke - the young man will not leave without attention to a girl. Of course, all good in moderation, and also must be able to laugh to the point. But a good, open, bright girl who always smile on his lips and joy in his eyes, like any guy.

• Interests of the young person.

Be interested in the guy, what his hobbies, what he was doing. On the one hand, you will learn more about the person that you like. On the other, you will be a topic of conversation. Hooked something people love to talk about their hobby. Be sure the guy will appreciate your interest in his hobbies and the opportunity to tell you about it. If a young person does not have specific interests, just ask him how he spends his free time than enjoys. This information will help you in the future: for example, if a guy likes outdoor activities, you can offer to go out of town or take a bike ride.

• Let the guy feel like a hero.

We have already said that men love fragile and delicate girls. And these girls are usually very strong need help Man. Ask a young man to help show that need it, and without in any way will not do! And do not forget to thank him, because men love compliments no less than girls. In addition, each person in his heart wants to be necessary and useful. And to be fit gentle girl - what could be better for a man?

• Display your guy how you approach each other.

Places emphasis on their positive qualities. The most simple and important - to show that you approach a guy as a partner. For example, you like the same thing (no matter what: Asian cuisine, fishing, extreme sports), you have the same hobbies, views on life, and so on. D. Here, you will greatly benefit the information that you received about the interests of the young person. The more interests, views, and so on. D. You share, the easier you will fall in love with the guy.

• Become his friend

Become a young man for a good friend who is always there in time of need, ready to help, to support, to listen. Men, too, need understanding and empathy as much as girls. If you fear that will remain so for a guy friend, do not worry: no man would want to have as a friend a feminine, gentle, sexy girl. But in this matter it is very important not to overdo it: do not get a girl to run errands, which runs on the first call for help. Balance between willingness to always be there in time of need and self-esteem: a guy in no way should not use you.

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When beginning a relationship is necessary

When the beginning of the relationship should be, it is important to continue to move in the right direction. And this will help councils, which provide psychologists.

• Trust and release.

In no way does not tie the guy to her. It is understandable that you would like to spend more time together, but your relationship does not have to cut back on the personal freedom of each of you. The young man still wants to meet with friends as it was before. Never be against it! Let him go, and you can meet up with her friends - is not an option? In addition, it is better to trust the guy the first day, otherwise the relationship will not deliver any of you joy. Relationships built on mutual trust, strong and reliable. If you're around the suspect and jealous guy is simply izvedet itself.

• Do not give yourself a reason to be jealous.

The same applies to you most: to what extent is nice when a guy is jealous. For many girls, it is an indication that he is in love. But in reality, it also says that people do not fully trust you. Do not give reasons for mistrust and jealousy is izvedet and Man, and you. Continuous monitoring, reporting requirement, "where she was and with whom" - unless it can bring happiness in relationships? Hardly.

• Me!

Remember, we have said that the girl must remain a mystery for a man? Help in this matter and external transformation, for example, dye your hair a new color, or make a new make-up, dressed in an unusual style. But I was within reason and at will: to want to surprise the guy and make him a nice commendable, but not at the expense of their own desires, too. Your essence, the highlight should always stay with you.

• Grow.

Many young people point to the fact that the girl should be not only beautiful, but also intelligent. Men appreciate his fiancee mind and erudition. Thus, developing, read more, learn something new. Even if you're not interested, for example, world news, you still see them: a cultured person always aware of the events taking place in the world. Even if you are only interested in the latest collection of designer clothing, pay attention to the interests of the Man if he likes cars, sometimes read magazines avtotematiku. And when you will have the opportunity to show off their knowledge, boy and his friends will be shocked.

• Be yourself.

Ultimately, you are aiming to ensure that the young man is in love with you, in your inner world, not in makeup, heels and dresses, do not you? So show him your inner world, meet with him, as a result, people love each other, not for looks or mind and the soul.

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How to fall in love with a Man, corresponding with him?

In the internet age, this issue is becoming more urgent. But as virtual communication differs from the real, and the action will be to conquer the other guy.

If in real life account Woman can attract, primarily through external data (make-up, clothing, manners and so on. D.), And then "turn on" the mind, then communicating with them virtually, this tactic is not possible. But it is in virtual communication girl can conquer the young man the mind, intellect, culture communication. In addition, rewriting, you should be in relation to the care of the boy, his empathy problems, willingness to support, to help, to listen. All this is in the internet communication is highly appreciated. And, of course, can show a guy that you like it.

Be attentive to the young man, his interests, life and what happens in it. For example, if he told you that he was ill with a dog and he leads her to the vet, then be sure to ask how the visit went. The guy really appreciated such utter care, rest assured.

Thus, special secrets in how to fall in love with a Man, no.