Contents:
- We all just want to party!
- When can we talk about this terrible diagnosis as alcoholism?
- Psychological work with dependent personality
- How to start the healing process?
We believe that the treatment of alcohol dependence, we need not ever. But try to understand why the alcohol begins. Constant stress, boredom, incomprehension, resentment, find yourself feeling lonely and so from day to day. And so I want to party! And then there's good name is familiar sit in a cafe on the weekend, to relax and, of course, drink. Why not? After all, you can finally afford it!
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We all just want to party!
This is how the stereotype of rest, which is impossible without alcohol. And indeed, at first it helps a person think that life takes on new colors, there is a feeling of euphoria, as if the problems are solved by themselves. He was good. And of course, he will remember this way of getting new experiences and willing to resort to it again and again.
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When can we talk about this terrible diagnosis as alcoholism?
And starts working mechanism of alcohol dependence. What happens next? And then alcohol becomes habitual. A mug of beer at a party, a glass of wine in the restaurant, a glass of brandy with a friend. Yes, and society support, offering live fun and easy and not think about the future. All the here and now, just do what you enjoy! That is the consequence of the fun may be the need for treatment of alcohol dependence.
What if the next holidays long time, even before the weekend is still far, and now suddenly free evening. After all, you can just sit at home, relax, take a bottle of wine ... you notice how increasing the number of alcohol required? This is a major trap addiction: to have fun, you need to constantly increase the dose. But man does not see any problems for yourself. After all, no one wants to admit that he had become dependent on alcohol.
Symptoms of alcohol dependence
The main feature of alcoholism - is the availability of traction, do not desire to drink to have fun, but simply to somehow live on.
Alcohol becomes a core value, forcing the sphere of interests of family, friends, career, and all the plans for tomorrow.
As a rule, first raised the alarm relatives. The problem according to one person becomes a problem that prevents many others live, not for nothing that there is a concept of co-dependency. The relatives of alcoholics simply have to build their lives in view of the situation. Endless conversations with addicts trying to reach his mind, treatment in specialized clinics. Here are just a narrowing of consciousness sick man (alcoholism - a chronic disease) does not see anything other than alcohol. The main desire alcoholic - to be drunk. Changing the identity of: aggression, the constant lies and apathy - the characteristics of the alcoholic. Any attempts to help are perceived as violence, invasion of privacy. Therefore, it is important the motivation of a dependent, so it must be the desire to get rid of alcohol voluntary slavery.
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Psychological work with dependent personality
Firstly, it should be understood that the dependence is the physical and psychological components. Getting rid of the alcohol dependence - is a complex multilevel process. Treat Alcoholism starts with cleansing the body of alcoholic poison.
But if the physical addiction can be managed with medication, the psychological dependence on the person will require changes with regard to his personality. It requires a conscious desire to change and the forces for the implementation of its decision. He literally have to learn to live again. Step by step walk to freedom from alcohol. To do this will need to find new values, change habits and, finally, to answer the question: why should I drink? What is it gives me a drink?
You will need to learn to be honest, especially with yourself.
What are the psychological causes of addiction?
As a rule, tend to form depending on people who can not cope with their feelings and emotions. Psychological trauma in childhood, lack of love, lack of confidence, low stress tolerance - these are the psychological conditions that can cause alcoholism.
Dependency becomes a kind of psychological protection, which allows you to silence the unpleasant and painful inner experiences. Rather than sort out their problems and learn to deal with them, one pretends that any problems do not exist. It creates the illusion of an easy life. Here are just a relationship eventually turns into more of a problem than all those on whom people sought to escape. Shattered relationships, health problems, feelings of guilt and lack of prospects for the future - that brings with alcoholism.
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How to start the healing process?
The main thing that needs to be done to get rid of dependence - is to see the life without alcohol. What will it be? It will be different, it is not necessary to idealize it. In life there is a place difficulties, bad mood, setbacks and losses, as well as the joy and pleasure. And one of the greatest pleasures - is to look at all the events with sober senses, make informed decisions, to build their lives. To see all the diversity and beauty of existence!
After all, the main value of life - is freedom. And so foolish to voluntarily give it up.
Each new day - a little holiday. And a man is always a choice: a holiday of freedom or dependence?
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