How will survive the separation

Contents:

• Do not get depressed
• Start a new life

Poets and writers from different eras praised eternal love in the books, the band - the songs, the actors - in the movies. However, the eternal love of the books found in the life of all the rarer. Increasingly, the relationship that at first seemed promising, suddenly end parting. People are less likely to appreciate each other, I do not want to work on the relationship. And the reason for separation may be many: do not get along, too different, the difference in age, social status and so on. D. And immediately the question arises, how to survive the separation from a loved one.

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Do not get depressed

To answer the question of how to survive the separation from the former should learn a few rules. First of all, do not panic, depressed, withdraw into themselves. Yes, this period will be difficult, especially at first. Of course, you can cry, to express all the loved one, a friend, a friend said all that disturbs the soul. Once you can feel sorry for yourself, cry enough, but do not be in this state for a long time. Otherwise, you can make yourself worse - to break the psyche, spoil the nerves.

To this deplorable depressive period has passed quickly, simply switch to something else. For example, you can withdraw completely into work, in school, engage in self-improvement, to learn a foreign language, learn a new profession, pass any courses. Anything, as long as it is fully engaged and on what not distracted.

You can, on the contrary, to arrange a vacation, holiday. You can gather your friends, take a trip to another city, country. No matter where the main thing - to change the situation, to catch new experience.

After such a holiday should tell yourself that begins a new life ahead will be new love, new relationships, new emotions, joy, happiness.

The main thing is not to hold a grudge against a former lover. First, you need to let go of it, and thank you for all the moments that he has presented, to say thank you for what gave happiness and love. Secondly, it is important to understand that just did not want the heavens to the relationship continued, means and necessary. This means that in future there will be a person who really give happiness, love.

You can do themselves, psychologists say that the way a man is easier to recover after breaking up. It is recommended to work out, you can change the hairstyle, clothing style. Changing the image of a man mind starting a new life.

After leaving the girls like to watch movies about love, listening to love songs, crying while watching and listening. Doing so is not recommended, it only exacerbates the situation, as emerges again loneliness, uselessness. If you want to get out of depression, watching romantic movies is undesirable. It is better to see with friends comedy, laugh heartily.

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Start a new life

Most people who have been abandoned, they want revenge. Finds a partner, tie a relationship with them, but in the end cast and with a sense of satisfaction go. It is important to understand that in this way can not get revenge on a former boyfriend or girlfriend, but just to play other people's feelings is cruel.

If the heart does not want to let go of a loved one, if the former always represented the ideal man, the most delicate, beautiful, unique and loved ones - it does not matter. Of course, it was so, but that he had and disadvantages. Maybe he was joking like that stupid, can you for all insulted, hurt, brought to tears, did not have a style of clothing, did something terrible that you are repelled by it. Of course it was. You just have to think about it often, that everything inside you repelled by the former. If, after this session, you will be pleased, even from what you have left, it's good. The main thing is to know what lies ahead will be the true love with another man, he is sure there will soon, very very soon.

After parting should not be afraid to be alone. Friends can not be always with you family too. They also have their problems, their partners, family. No need to be selfish and to require that you have always been around and supported the family. Being one does not need to think about breaking off relations. Do not look for a cons. If you look for them, will develop complexes. You can make some unusual dish, the cooking process is completely distract from the sad thoughts. You can make spring cleaning the house, disassemble your wardrobe, to find a specific hobby, such as knitting, embroidery, assembling puzzles. Turn on the music, funny, moving, moving under her, dance, sing songs. Even though it would seem foolish not to think about it, because no one sees.

These tips will help you when it is not known how to survive the separation from a loved one. Even if they will be quite difficult to perform, yet you need to make myself, and as a result you'll be thankful for the fact that vseslozhilos just so and not otherwise.