How to make a relationship with a loved one perfect

Contents:

• Candy buketny period
• The efforts are bearing fruit
• After the wedding: the secret of marital happiness

What are the ideal relationship? This storm of emotions, feelings, or the volcano is still quiet and safe harbor?
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Candy buketny period

Their meeting was absolutely accidental. On the first day of dating, they spend every night together, do not hide their mad love and otherwise demonstrate their ideal relationship in public. Sweet couple spends almost every weekend in a romantic journey, and then they fast their happy photos in social networks is not embarrassed to add a comment about how marked the anniversary since the first kiss, when and where it happened. After some time, the lovers finishing off control shot envious of friends who every now and then complain about the banal "bored" attitude, his statement about the future wedding. It stormed all bridal salons, but he proudly says that he is happy and ready to get married on the sole. Such relationships are reminiscent of images from glossy magazine, which so passionately dream of every girl.

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The efforts are bearing fruit

In fact, the ideal relationship with the hope of a shared future - is hard work, and above all, the daily work on yourself.

The young man must learn to respect and kindness to his beloved. When a man takes responsibility and makes decisions, he should not be despotism against women. Buy wisdom help the girl modesty and prudence. Therefore, even in the early stages of joint meetings need to pay more attention, not their appearance (most of the girls descend unimaginable amounts of money and a waste of time in the hope of action by all the well-known saying "men love with their eyes"), and the development of those qualities, habits and abilities, which are then useful marriage.

When each of you to "tune" the quality of his character, it is necessary to understand the "Sounds" you in unison, that is, whether you come to each other? It is important that both partners have common beliefs and principles. Mostly compatibility is not determined by how you look and how you are able to adapt to each other. Quite often, loving people argue and disagree. What happens at this point in your couple? you keep mutual respect and calmly discussed the problem or disagreements degenerated into heated debate? Install sample frank dialogue that will allow joint problems, and use the following tips:

• do not start a conversation if one of you is tired;
• when one says, let the other listening (do not interrupt each other, your spouse must fully share with you my experiences);
• friendly talk, do not criticize;
• Be flexible and prudent;
• take into account the feelings of the partner and show sensitivity;
• Expresses its appreciation;
• when you are wrong, I apologize.

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After the wedding: the secret of marital happiness

Based finals numerous movies, marriage is a desirable goal. The film ends with the wedding, and the characters live happily ever after. But it happens only in the movies, because the wedding - it's not final, but the beginning of a joint family life. The most important thing - to treat marriage as a union for life. You can not get married with the idea that if something goes wrong, you can always file for divorce.

Is it possible to make family life was strong and happy? Yes, if both parties know the secret of a perfect relationship. He was not kept a secret. And for those who use it in my life, every time it proves to be useful. This secret lies in two keys.

Love - this is the first key. It is important to develop several types of marital love. One of them - it is romantic love between man and woman, the other view - a warm personal attachment to a man, the third type - the love of a sister. If the spouses will develop all of these kinds of love, their marriage will be long and happy.

The second key - this respect. You do not need to act selfish and think only about their own welfare. It should take into account the interests of his partner in life and to respect his dignity. Respect will help the spouses to recognize dissent. The wife should recognize the primacy of the husband to support his decision and express appreciation for the efforts he has made in the implementation guide. In such circumstances, any man would feel "captain of the ship", to take responsibility and act only for the benefit of his wife.

The ideal relationship - it is a manifestation of love and respect for each other.   Using these keys, you can easily open the door to sharing happiness and family life will be for you a safe and secure haven in the days of storms and bad weather.